Sign Of The Times

Yesterday I received an email from a gentleman who wanted to know about the homeless and panhandling.

In his email, this gentleman mentioned that he considered himself "… a good Christian man" who was "… living on a fixed income." He went on to say that he quite often comes across homeless who are asking for spare change or are standing somewhere holding a cardboard sign. He was apologetic that while he has a desire to help, because he is on a fixed income, he doesn’t always have the wherewithal to do so. In addition, there are times when he’s worried that if he does give a homeless person some money that they will only use his "… money to buy something to drink."  

Intolerance Is Not An Option

Years ago I heard a proverb, or a wise saying or whatever you want to call it, which – to paraphrase it – says:

"Even a foolish person can avoid being recognized as foolish if they just keep silent."

… which is just a poetic way of saying

"Before opening mouth, engage brain."

Today I was witness to a situation that validates both sayings.  

The Person Behind The Sign

Several days ago I wrote a post called Another Question Asked.

I mentioned how I’ve received numerous emails from folks who want more information about homelessness – something I most definitely approve of. My personal opinion is that the more we understand about this devastating social condition the better the chance that we can break through the stereotypes, misconceptions and prejudices that overshadow homelessness. And, if we can somehow get past the stigmas, perhaps we can make genuine headway at reducing the numbers of homeless on our nation’s streets.  

Selective Compassion

Today, about mid-afternoon, I stopped into a supermarket to get a bottle of water. When I exited there was a young woman who looked to be about thirty-something. She was asking for donations for the "rehab" program that she was enrolled in.

The name of the organization isn’t important, but it is a well known group. They offer an opportunity for people with some alcohol or drug addition disorders to become clean and sober. And in the process they also offer them a chance to build a "spiritual life."

I put a few dollars into the plastic container that was sitting atop a small folding table – the TV tray type. Then, because I have a well developed curiosity, I stayed and spoke with the young woman for about 15 minutes.  

Got A Quarter?

"Excuse me, can you spare some change?"

It’s a question most of us have heard at one time or another. Or, if we haven’t been asked, then we’ve seen a person standing on a corner holding a cardboard sign telling us that they’re homeless. Anything helps. God Bless.

Sometimes we’re not sure how to respond – or even if we should.